New Jersey Wedding Officiant

Luxury weddings. Intimate elopements. Every ceremony written and delivered with the same care, no matter the size of the guest list.

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BASED IN NEW JERSEY

WEDDING OFFICIANT & ELOPEMENT SPECIALIST

EST. 2014

I officiate large luxury weddings and small intimate elopements throughout New Jersey and the greater NY tri-state area, and I officiate weddings internationally as well. Whether you're planning a full ceremony surrounded by everyone you love, or a quiet moment with just the two of you, I bring the same level of care, preparation, and presence to every ceremony I write.

Wedding officiant guiding a couple through their vow exchange at Hudson House in Jersey City, New Jersey
Wedding officiant in a red dress embracing a couple after their ceremony at Senate House Grounds in Kingston, New York
Officiant standing with a couple during their lakeside elopement ceremony in Barnardsville, New Jersey

TRUSTED BY COUPLES SINCE 2014

12+

YEARS
OFFICIATING

1,000+

CEREMONIES
PERFORMED

CMR

CERTIFIED MUNICIPAL
REGISTRAR

205+

FIVE-STAR
GOOGLE REVIEWS

theElopements

Intimate ceremonies in New Jersey's most beautiful places

Thinking about the courthouse?

Same paperwork as the courthouse, with a far more beautiful backdrop.

A park, the people you love and a ceremony written just for the two of you, legally married the very same day.

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Choose your ceremony

Aretha laughs with Jamina and Esaie during their ring exchange at Chateau Briand in Carle Place, NY

Every ceremony is written for the two of you, for every couple and every kind of love.

LGBTQ+ weddings & elopements

BASED IN NEW JERSEY

MEET YOUR
OFFICIANT

EST. 2014

Wedding officiant leading a ceremony at The Venetian in Garfield, New Jersey

I'm Aretha Gaskin, a New Jersey wedding officiant and Certified Municipal Registrar.

For more than a decade, I've helped couples throughout New Jersey and the NY tri-state area create ceremonies that actually feel like them, whether that's a large wedding with a full guest list and a produced timeline, or an intimate elopement with just the two of you.

I bring the same preparation and presence to every ceremony I officiate, along with the legal and paperwork knowledge to make sure everything is handled correctly, no matter which path you choose.

Aretha Gaskin, New Jersey wedding officiant, standing outside The Venetian in Garfield, New Jersey

WHY they CHOSE ARETHA

Jennifer & Abraham share their experience working with Weddings By Aretha and what made their ceremony so unforgettable.

YOUR WEDDING STARTS HERE.

Whether you’re planning a full wedding or an intimate elopement, check my availability for your date and let’s get started.