Your Love Story,
Beautifully Told
Award-Winning Wedding Officiant in New Jersey | 10+ Years of 5-Star Ceremonies
How I show up for your wedding ceremony.
Over the past 10+ years, I’ve learned that the best wedding ceremonies don’t feel scripted or stiff. They feel real. That’s why I take the time to truly get to know you, so your ceremony reflects who you are—not just as individuals, but as a couple.
On wedding day, I show up calm, prepared and fully present. I’m often told I bring a grounding energy to the room—and that’s exactly what I aim for. No theatrics. No fluff. Just a meaningful moment you’ll remember forever.
Meet Aretha
Hi, I’m Aretha — a New Jersey based Wedding Officiant with over 10 years experience designing ceremonies that are personal, heartfelt, and unforgettable for couples worldwide.
I’ve had the joy of working with hundreds of incredible couples, and nothing makes me happier than turning love stories into meaningful moments.
“I don’t just officiate weddings—I witness love, honor stories, and gain lifelong friends along the way.”
— Aretha Gaskin
The Process
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Ready to get started?
To check my availability and book a consultation, be sure to complete the correct form anywhere on the website.
WEDDING
Means you have a venue, team of vendors, a wedding party and a large/medium guest count etc. START HERE.ELOPEMENT
Means you, your witnesses and a hand full of guests are meeting me (at a designated location) to either just sign/process your Marriage License and exchange vows OR you’re booking a beautiful elopement ceremony. START HERE. -
All of my consultations are done remotely. If you’re booking a custom wedding, our consultation runs for approximately 1 hour and both parties need to be present.
Please review the pricing page BEFORE booking a consultation.
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On the big day, I arrive approx. 30 to 45 minutes before the ceremony begins. I check in with your planner or coordinator to make sure everything is in place. Then, its showtime!
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Within 48 hours, I’ll process your marriage license with the appropriate registrar’s office. Once that’s taken care of, I’ll check-in to gather any photos or videos you’d like to share for my portfolio — because your love story deserves to be celebrated (again and again).
Then I followup to confirm that you’ve obtained your Certified Marriage Certificate.
Weddings
Your wedding ceremony is one of the most monumental moments of your life. Together, we’ll craft a personalized wedding ceremony that perfectly reflects your unique love story. From traditional to contemporary, your ceremony will be tailored just for you.
Elopements
Dreaming of an intimate and romantic elopement? Let’s make it a reality. Your special moment deserves to be unforgetable, and with my expertise, it will be. Whether it’s a quiet beach or a beautiful park, your elopement will be as unique and magical as your love story.
License
Signing
Not planning a full ceremony? I offer a simple, stress-free marriage license signing for couples who just want to make it official.
This service includes a brief exchange of vows, immediate license processing, and if we meet on a weekday, you can receive your Certified Marriage Certificate the same day.
Quick, easy and legally binding—with heart.
View My Portfolios & Testimonials
“Aretha’s warmth and genuine excitement for our union were palpable. It was like having a dear friend guide us through one of the most important moments of our lives. We couldn’t have asked for a better Wedding Officiant, and we’re forever grateful for the way she made our wedding ceremony unforgettable. She also was extremely punctual for our rehearsal (which you should absolutely also book) as well as our big day.”
— Taylor & Chardley
